Naomi says...

Sheila says...

Alison says...

Naomi Video Transcript:

"Before the Your Last Love Method program my life and definitely my love life kind of, it felt stuck. I was in this vicious cycle of not getting what I wanted, not knowing why I was where I was at, and how to get out of it. It felt like I've been single forever. Been divorced about 11 years and been in and out of a handful of relationships and nothing really materialized into anything significant.

The most frustrating part is always seeming to attract the wrong guy and not knowing why. After working with natalie, my love life is quite amazing. It was something that I've worked on for a long time, and quite honestly,  I thought I could probably have done this by myself. But since being in this program, I realized that I could not have done it by myself.

Having someone to coach you, guide you, give you multiple aha moments, that you just want to smack yourself in the face, because how? Having a coach bring those out in you is one of the best things that anybody could ever ask for, because you don't have to do this alone. Like, it doesn't need to be alone. And this course teaches you how to attract what you want, what you need, what you desire.

The one best thing that I now have from doing this program, aside from having a wonderful man in my life -- It's the understanding of why I was where I was at, and now I have tools to stay where I am at now, and the future looks really bright. It feels good to feel good. My heart is open, my vibration is high, and I am happy.

I would definitely highly recommend this program. I can't imagine where my life would be without it. And I appreciate it for what it will continue to add in my life to come, because it gives you the foundation not just to find your last love, but to continue using it in all aspects of your life." 

Sheila Video Transcript:

"Before joining the program really met a lot of guys who weren't able to commit where they say they wanted to be committed and then found out they were still online dating. I had been out of a serious relationship for about four years. Since the program, I've met a couple of quality men, learned a lot, grew a lot and I'm currently in a really great relationship and he's a really great guy. He checks off all the boxes on my list and we're talking about a future together.

The biggest change that's happened to me since starting the program is renewing my self love and confidence and I always felt like I had to lose some weight and be in a better spot and I realized now love will only make all those things better. Not career, kids, family. I do have two kids in high school and I think I was kind of on the fence bringing someone else into my life while they're still home, but I realize now that I can have it all. And I think the thing that I really loved about the program was going into the monthly coaching calls and getting out there and dating and asking questions and hearing others and what they're going through having a sense of community.

I would absolutely recommend this program to my friends I have and anyone who's over 40 and single and looking for love. I think this program really sets itself apart. Getting rid of all the myths and a lot of the stuff that's out there online about dating, it's not really true. One thing I'd like to share about this program is natalie's commitment not only to her content that she can tell, she put so much thought and effort into, but also in the way that she's available being email.

Um she's a support like no one you've ever had. More than a friend, she doesn't judge you, but she gives you guidance and that's something you really can't get from your friends sometimes because as you know, they have their own fears and judgements. So she really does a great job in helping you navigate material, keeping you on point, keeping you motivated, supporting each other other women as well as on the coaching calls.

It's really truly valuable and something that I cherish and so grateful that she shares her talents to help us all."

Alison Video Transcript:

"Natalie and Your Last Love Method are, by far, the best program, and by far, the best coach I've ever had. And I was honestly hesitant at first because I've had some bad coaching in the past and I wasn't sure that I wanted to make the investment, but I can't even begin to tell you how much it has changed my life and it is worth a million times more.

I was single for 3 1/2 years before working with Natalie. I have a tendency to attract married men, unavailable men, men with addictions of some sort. That's what I've been attracting, pretty much for the past 20 years. Working with Natalie, it's just been a complete 180 in terms of the guys that I'm attracting. We have blasted through the reasons why I'm attracting unavailable men.

I have met the first healthy man because of who I've become. I have dealt with some trauma that was still kind of stuck in my body and keeping me from manifesting the things that I want to manifest in my life. I really am stepping into my own power. I'm more comfortable in my body. I'm like falling in love with me, and I think that is absolutely imperative in order to fall in love with a man.

To have somebody that actually can tell you what you needed to hear in a very compassionate loving way -- it's life changing. It's a community of love and that's what Natalie is. She's just a big ball of love. Natalie has this gift of knowing how to get you to the next level, and then the next level, and then the next level.

I just love this program so much. It has completely changed my life in ways that I couldn't even think of when I started and it just keeps getting better and better and better."

More "love letters" from happy clients...

Hear What Mike Had to Say About His Partner Being In My Love Coaching Program 

Pssssttttt... Mike shared with me a little secret after he finished this interview... and now they are engaged! 💖

Mike Video Transcript:

"Our relationship has flourished since she's been in the program. So I've got nothing but positive reviews. I think one of the biggest changes in Naomi is that she's healed, she's healed from past traumas and she's now in a place where she doesn't want to keep me at arm's length and she's her willingness or openness to accept love and not just give love, but just to be able to accept love as well. It's impacted our relationship positively in so many ways.

But most importantly, we were on the same page. We attack everything as a team. We, it's really a teamwork mentality over here. It's it's refreshing, it's a place that we really have never been at and it's exciting. I can't wait to see what more she can gain from the program.

I think she has found ways through your program to be emotionally available for me, which gives her a different mike when you're always being held at arm's length, you get kind of tired of that kind of lifestyle and that existence and you don't give the same love or the same affection to that person as you do to a person that is openly accepting your love and reciprocates that love.

So I think that's really one of the biggest things that has has changed. I would say, to definitely give it a shot come in with an open mind. Because Natalie knows what she's talking about. Thank you for being you. It's been a really great the last six or seven months with Naomi, it's really been what I have desperately wanted out of our situation and what I've always hoped it could be super excited about the future.

So yeah, thank you so much for being you."

I Sat Down on a Zoom With Phil and Sheila to Talk About How Her Participation in the Your Last Love Method™ Program Changed Both of Their Lives

Sheila & Phil Video Transcript:

(PLEASE NOTE THIS TRANSCRIPT HAS BEEN EDITED FOR BREVITY, CLARITY, AND RELEVANCE)

Q: How long had you guys been seeing each other when Sheila first told you that she was in a love coaching program? 

Phil: That was pretty quick. I think it was in our first one of our first face to face conversations, right? She was pretty transparent about it. Yeah, I mean we talked, the nice thing is we've really enjoyed talking to each other… So she told me all about you. I had never heard of a love coach before. So I was like… interesting. 

Q: So knowing what you know now, how do you feel about it now that you're more familiar with what a love coach is and what a love coach does and how do you feel about it?

Phil: Well, I don't think there was anything to be afraid of you know, it's help, so it's understanding, it's somebody to talk things through with that isn't going to judge you. So I think that's a very good thing.

You know friends are good places to bounce things off of, but they're still going to have their judgment and opinions, filter it through their own experiences… and somebody that is doing this like you are probably has a lot more stories and resources to compare it to than anybody's friends would. 

You know, you're going to talk to your friends, but they're going to remain in their circles too. Whereas you have all of these people that are clients or other experiences that you have that you're bringing to the table and helping everybody else understand that your problems aren't unique is that everybody does have relatively the same issues and no one knows how to tackle them themselves.

So it's good to talk to someone.  

Q: So, what I want to know from you, what was different about Sheila when you met her that initially attracted you to her and made you feel like this is somebody that maybe I could really have something with?

Phil: Yeah. well, most of all she had her s*** together. Excuse my language. But I really appreciated that. And that she was very up front. Like, hey, I'm working on this or these have been my experiences. So I'm learning more about this and I'm learning more about that… 

And I was like, wow, that's really different because usually people are much more selfish about themselves and they're right and everybody else is wrong. They’re trying to present themselves as though they're perfect, right? Instead of just being coming in the front door with, hey, I'm a human, these are my issues. I'm just letting you know, right? 

I mean, I think I'm a pretty easy going, open person myself. But Sheila, you know, it's easy to talk to Sheila about everything and because she's open to listening as well, right?

Q: So what is it about her that made you feel like you wanted to move from just casual dating into a relationship? What made Sheila commitment material? 

Phil: Well, the physical part is off the hook, so, I mean, that's definitely a wonderful thing. But no, it goes back to a little bit of what I said earlier is that you know, we talk. 

We talk to each other every day in some way, shape or form whether it's for 10 minutes or I've been on the phone with her for two hours and you look at the clock and it's like, oh my god, you know, so um it's been getting to know her on so many different levels and I like everything that I've learned. Like I said the physical part is one aspect of it, but she's a very smart person, there's no doubt about that.

I said it earlier, she has her act together whether she'll admit to it or not and what she doesn't think she has together, she's still light years ahead of many other people that I know. She's also a professional person and she doesn't need me, you know, everybody wants to feel needed to a certain extent, but she's not looking to lean on me for her happiness either, so that's very attractive because I don't feel like I have to be on a phone call with her to make the relationship go forward, you know, and that's one of the other things that I've felt is we both kind of have that. 

So we understand each other when our time is being pulled in a direction for the kids and neither one of us gets offended that it's like, I got to do something with my boys, so I got to do something with my son and daughter or you know, my daughter needs to talk or whatever it is, there's no aggravation of like, well why do you need to talk to her now or you know, why are you putting them in front of me? And it's like, mhm. They're not adults yet, agree we have the same values.

Q: Yeah, that's awesome. So, what I found really great about what you just said, is that you love that she's smart and you love that she's got her s*** together and she doesn't need you because I've seen tons of videos and articles from other coaches that say to women that men need to feel needed, you need to make him feel needed… and I think that an insecure man needs to feel needed, while a secure man needs to feel important and wanted, but not needed… You don't want a woman who who has to be beneath you and somewhere where she can't live without you.. You want an independent woman, right?  

Phil: Yeah. I mean, and the other thing is guys aren't that complicated. It's, you know, very caveman style. It's like, hey, this is what I like.

I'm happy because I enjoy this or I'm unhappy because I don’t enjoy that. There's not a whole lot to read into.  

So, um, there's no reason to analyze me. If you want to know what's going on, I'll tell you, you know, I don't have a problem with saying this is bothering me or this isn't bothering me… or I'm in a good mood because of this, or I had a bad day at work or whatever.

There's, you know, idiots in everybody's job world for sure. But I don't bring a lot of that home. But every now and then I'll say, oh, you gotta hear this story and she's happy to listen. And I listen to all the fun things that she encounters. And so it's definitely a two way street. 

You know, she doesn't monopolize the conversation. I don't think I monopolize the conversation.

Q: So Sheila, you're next. I want to ask you. Is there anything about Phil's answers that surprises you?

Sheila: Not really because we've talked like he said, we talk so much. We're pretty on the same page. So I'm not surprised that’s what what he likes because he's also very verbal about it.

He tells me what he likes, you know, having a little bit of what he doesn't like, but more of what he likes. He's definitely more positive than negative. He's definitely reinforcing the positive. 

Q: And that was one of the things on your list of what you wanted, right? 

Sheila: Exactly.

Q: So, can you tell me, what about Phil's answers do you feel is actually directly related to what you've learned in the love coaching program? 

Sheila: Well being my authentic self and just being vulnerable straightaway and not having, you know, Sheila date one, date two, date three personality that's different than Sheila, you know, watching Netflix at home by yourself.

You know, because you put on the face of what you think other people want to see and I just got tired of it. So I stopped and I learned that like you said, if it doesn't resonate with them, they're not for me.

But he just kept coming back around and asking me out and I kept enjoying it and no expectations and it just kept growing. So it was beautiful. 

Q: Yeah. So back to you, Phil, is there anything in particular that Sheila has shared with you about what she's learned in the program that you think has been instrumental in laying the foundation for the closeness that you guys are enjoying so much now? 

Phil: Well, I think it's really simple from what she just said, is that the thing that you learned in the program was don't be somebody you’re not. You know, don't be somebody on the first date that is not you. 

Because sooner or later the real you is gonna show up and you're  only kidding yourself if you're trying to be somebody on day one, the first date, knowing that by date number 10, you're going to be a different person. Then whoever you're dating is going to be scratching their head thinking why did I go that far or how come I didn't see it sooner or what changed?

Q: So yeah, everybody wants, he says, you know, well, the person changed after we got together. No, they didn't really change, they just hid who they really were in the beginning. 

Phil: Well, I think that one of the problems with, with dating, especially in today's world, with dating online and everything is, it's a job interview.

It's such a job interview process nowadays with like, hey, what do you do? I got two kids, I go to this school, I did this, I did that and blah blah blah yada yada. 

And, and it's, it's such a canned presentation. And somehow we got past that pretty quickly, you know, we got into whatever conversations we did that took away from it and it didn't feel like, okay, that was a job interview. Everybody puts on a face for a job interview so they get the job.

Sheila: We got real, I think we were both intellectually curious about each other, which I'm intellectually curious all the time, but I have to temper it because people think it's a job interview when it's not. I ask more in depth questions because I'm actually curious and he did the same, which was really nice having that back at you.

Q: That's a good that's an important phrase, that “in depth,” because in a job interview, the kind of thing you're thinking about, I think, and and tell me if I'm wrong, is, people are looking for your “stats” to see if you fit into their boxes. 

They're not going deeper. They're not asking basically who are you? You know? and really trying to get to know you. 

Sheila: Yeah, I think it's also a little bit of what going back to some of the things you have said that you guys have talked about is people are looking for their for their their exes instead of there pluses, you know, it's it's like, okay, that's what's wrong with this guy? That's what's wrong with it.

Phil: There's the answer that I know is going to be wrong. That's the wrong answer type of a thing, instead of getting the positives and growing the positives. So, I think that's what we've done.  

Sheila: Yeah, I haven't found a red flag yet. So, but at this point it's going to be the 80 20 rule because he's already got 80% right.

Q: Sheila what do you feel that you've done differently since the start of this relationship as a result of this program?

Sheila: Well, I had a couple of relationships out of the gate from the program that didn't work well, but I took the gift and the lesson and I went back to my list and refined my list. So I felt like I was just more sure about it. And I was confident in my own self love and where I am. 

And I just I didn't have any expectations. I guess sometimes when you're on date one, you're worried you're going to get date two. You're on date two, are you gonna get date three? 

Well, we were like midway through date one and he asked me out again so before I even got even worried, was he gonna ask me out, is he going to kiss me goodnight… It's like, when am I gonna see you again? I'm like, okay, there's date two…and the next thing, you know, where's day three? And it's just been like that. So it's been great.  

Phil: So that's awesome. And somewhere along somewhere along the line, I think you sent me your list. 

Sheila: So I did, because I kept saying you're getting all the things on my list because I would talk about the program or coaching calls about what I shared, not anything about anybody else just about me.

And so I shared it with him because he was like, can I see? Like, of course, he’s curious. 

I would've been like give me that list. So I think you should make you, maybe you can make a list? 

Q: Well, I think that clarity helps more than people realize because I've had come into the program who when I've said, well what do you want in somebody? I just want somebody I can spend my life with. No. What do you want? Like you have to have an idea what you want or you're not gonna find it. Like you can't find where you're going without a map or gps. Right? 

Phil: Sheila has been fantastic. I'm attracted to her physically mentally, everything that we've discussed, as I'm learning more and more about her.

So I haven't seen any red flags either as to like this is this is not gonna work out. She's mellow and the things that, that I would expect her to be, you know, in line with my priorities. Because her priorities are there too. 

And there's the things that it's mellow about — pretty much our kids, we have the understanding that you gotta do your things with your kids and I got to do my things with my kids. So yeah, that's a big, big thing and like I said before, she doesn't need me, she doesn't need me around, she wants me around. So that's very attractive on so many levels. 

So it's somebody that I can share things with and grow old with and do things together with that aren't just going to be dependent on me financially or physically or whatever it might be.

Sheila: So that's a lot of what he says attracted him to me and made him want a relationship with me is having someone who he, the way he put it was, you don't need anything from me. Like you've got it, you've got it on your own and you just want me for me.

Exactly, and I don't know any other way. I've always had it on my own. You know, my dad raised me that way to never be dependent on a man that was how I was raised because then you can have a partnership of equals. 

Q: Okay, so for Sheila, what is your absolute favorite thing about your relationship with with Phil? 

Sheila: It's easy, like it just flows and I don't mean easy as in a lazy word, I meant easy as like a river, like it just flows and it's enjoyable and there's no roller coaster, there's no drama. There's just joy.  

Q: And how about you, Phil? 

Phil: I'm not guessing. I'm not wondering what's on her mind. I'm not wondering, you know, what did I say wrong or what do I have to do next or where do I have to be or you know, what's up? Why haven't I heard from her or um did I piss her off in that conversation or anything? Because like you said the conversation it's give and take and if if there's something on your mind, you tell me and I think that when there's something on my mind, I tell you, there hasn't been anything that I've held back.

Q: Is there anything else that either of you would like to share with me about your relationship, your feelings for each other? Your feelings about the coaching program, anything? 

Phil: Well, I mean if all your students are like Sheila, then you, you know,  if they take away what, what Sheila has taken away, then you've done a fantastic job.

Sheila: Yeah, I would say, I guess the springboard that is do the work. So if you put the money into it, you should invest the time. So like, you know, I did the modules. I did some modules over again. I did all the worksheets. I did the daily meditations. I carved out that time at night because you told me when you have a boyfriend, you're going to need to make space for them at night. Either be with them or talk with them on the phone.

So I trusted you in that over a year ago. I started that practice and now we talk every night. I create that space and time and I still have my morning meditation every morning. I still do the magic 8 meditation a couple of times a week, you know?

Q: Yeah. And have you ever regretted making that time in your schedule for that stuff? 

Sheila: No, I feel like do the work and it's okay to fail. Like the two relationships out of the gate that didn't work out, it wasn't a failure because I learned something that got me to where I am right now, maybe I wouldn't have appreciated fill as much if I hadn't have gone through some of the lessons and tweaked my list.

I mean, I just don't know why you wouldn't do that. I just jumped in, I was voracious about it, I just kept moving through the modules and now to this day I'm still growing with other self help stuff to augment my manifestation or you know, enjoy our happiness… Books, like I'm continuously learning."