Technical FAQs

 

The main page of the program is:
https://www.mylast.love

Please bookmark this link for easy access. Use this link to get to the main page of the program from any device. From here, you can log in and view your modules and other course content. If you run into login issues, start back at this main page.

(If you don't know how to bookmark a page, copy and paste the link into a note on your computer, and name the note something that you can remember and search. If you don't know how to do that, then write it down somewhere safe.)

The program materials are web-based, which means you do not need to download anything. Everything sits on a server, and you can get to that server with this link:
https://www.mylast.love

When you click that link, a new tab or browser window will open with the main course page displayed. On this homepage is a link that says Login. Click that link to get to the sign-in page.

 

On the sign-in page, enter your credentials. This will be your email and password. If you do not remember your credentials, please see the previous answer.

When you signed up for access to the program, your enrollment coach set up your access with an email address and an initial password. The email address is where any email updates and news tidbits are being sent. If you receive any updates or news from Natalie or the program in your email inbox, that is the email you need to use when logging in. As for the password, if you do not know what it is, there are a few ways to handle that:

  1. The login page has a password reset link at the bottom. You can click that to reset your password.
  2. Contact us so we can email you that information. Your password is something that we do not have access to view. All we can do is tell the system to send it to your email.

If you are having issues resetting your password, or using your password to log in, here are the most common problems:

1) You have copied and pasted your password, and accidentally hit the space bar, or copied over an extra empty space before or after your email or password. 

2) You have forgotten to use the shift key to capitalize something. 

3)You have typed in the wrong password, or there is a typo in your password. 

4) You have typed in the wrong email, or there is a typo in your email. 

5) You have used an EXPIRED "reset password" link. (Those links are only good for a couple of hours, so once you request a reset, use it right away.)

6) You are trying to use your old password, after you have already requested a password reset. 

Hot tip: It is soooooo much easier to figure out password issues and get it right on a computer, as opposed to your phone! After you've reset your password and it is working on your computer, THEN try it on your phone. 

If you are still having trouble after following this process, please contact Greg at [email protected] so we can reset your password for you. 

First, understand that the server on which the program sits has nothing to do with whether or not you are logging in from a computer, tablet, or phone. Think of our course and website as a house. A house has a key to gain entry. That key is your login credentials -- i.e. your email address and password. How you get to the house does not change how the key works. If you get to the house by walking, by bicycle, or by car, that does not change your key. The same is true with getting to our program site. It does not matter if you are using a computer, a tablet, a phone, etc.

Most time, we find that the web browser you are using has saved your credentials. It is a nice feature that allows you to just click an old link in an email to get to the site, and your browser actually logs you in automatically. However, sometimes people change their password while on their computer, and the computer saves the updated password. However, your phone does not know this, and it might be trying to use your old password. This is usually the cause of a login problem. Instead of trying an old link from an email, tap in your browser's address bar and type in the main page for the course: https://www.mylast.love. Make sure there is nothing additional that your phone or browser is trying to add to this link address. Once at the main page, tap the Login link at the top of the page. You will be redirected to the login page where you can enter the proper credentials.

Other times, people make an assumption that they need to use a different email when logging in from their phone. As mentioned above, your login credentials DO NOT change just because you are getting to the course website from a different device. Use the same email and password that works on your other device. Those are the correct credentials to log in.

Another thing we have found is that people just mistype their password when logging in on their phone. It happens. Those phone keyboards are pretty tiny, and it is very easy to accidentally add a space or hit the wrong letter. Double-check you have entered your password correctly.

If none of this works, see the previous answer about forgetting your credentials.

We recommend using the Google Chrome browser. It seems to work best with everything. You may use any browser you choose, but we cannot test and support them all. However, many clients are successful with using the Apple Safari browser. Most of it is a personal preference. Just know that not all browsers play nice with all web sites. If you end up trying to use some super-secure and obscure web browser, you may run into issues due to super-secure settings on that browser. It will be up to you to figure out how to get those settings to work properly.

If you wish to download and install the Google Chrome browser, you can do that here:
https://www.google.com/chrome/dr/download/

The short answer is "No." We might be able to provide SOME technical guidance on the basics of navigating whichever site you are trying to use. However, when it comes to login issues, we have no control over that. Websites are responsible for their own technical support, especially when it comes to sensitive information such as login credentials. We can assist you with logging in to our own program website, but dating sites are out of our control. You will need to contact the technical support team for the dating site in question. You should be able to find a link to their contact information from their main site page. This is a general rule for all websites.

First, make sure you camera and/or speakers are enabled.  Be sure you have not clicked on a "Mute" button in any on-screen audio/video controls.  Software like Zoom will have separate buttons for audio and video settings, and a simple click of those buttons can turn a camera or speaker on and off.  Those controls are usually at the bottom of your screen in a settings bar.  You may need to quickly tap the screen on a mobile device to have the settings bar pop up briefly.

If the settings for your software or app do not appear to be the issue, the quickest and easiest fix for this is to simply restart your computer or mobile device.  

Many times we find that someone was using their device for another meeting for for listening to music. At that time, the operating system of the device created a channel to the camera or speakers being used -- usually the speakers are some sort of Bluetooth-enabled earphones.  However, the when the person is done with their call or music session, the operating system may not properly "let go" of the camera or speaker.  So, when the person now goes into a Zoom meeting or wants to watch a video, the operating system still thinks it is using the camera or speaker from last time.  Sometimes you can just go into your audio or video settings of your device to find out which camera or speaker is being used at the moment.  We see a lot of folks who can't hear anything through their device's main speaker because the device is still connected to their Bluetooth-enabled earphones.

Rather than spend 30 minutes trying to trace the problem to any specific device, restarting your device will forcibly "let go" of any previous connections to a camera or speaker.  It's a one-minute fix, and it saves everyone a lot of time and headaches.

A streaming video that is stopping and starting or seems jittery usually indicates an issue with Internet connection speed. This happens most often on mobile devices.  Make sure your mobile device has WiFi turned on, you are connected to a WiFi access point, and your WiFi connection indicator shows a strong connection.  If you are only using mobile data from your cellular plan, make sure your signal strength is good.

For mobile devices, the device will try to use WiFi, if enabled, but the device will also try to use the strongest signal possible most times.  If you are in a place with a spotty WiFi connection, your device might start off using the WiFi connection but then bounce to use the cellular signal if the WiFi signal becomes too weak, even for just a few seconds.  If the WiFi signal becomes a bit stronger again, your mobile device may try to switch back to WiFi.  You end up bouncing constantly between the two signals as you stream, and your audio/video becomes choppy.

If you aren't streaming but instead just watching a video or listening to an audio file that you have already downloaded and things are still choppy, the most likely cause is the number of apps running or tabs open in  your browser. Devices, no matter how powerful, have a limit to the number of things they can handle at once. Some folks just naturally work with many, many browser tabs and windows open as they move from site to site.  Having your device work with all of that in the background while you try to watch a video just becomes too much for the device to handle.  Make sure you close all unnecessary apps and browser windows/tabs.

It is recommended that you use a computer or tablet to watch the lesson videos and read the written content in the modules. This recommendation is simply because it is easier for many people to see and find things on a larger screen. However, the program does not require you to own a computer. Many people have been successful using only a phone. 

For the audio sessions, most people find that listening on their phone is a much more convenient option. You don't have to download the audios to listen, just click/tap of the play button, to listen right from your phone. 

You can access the website from your phone, or you can download the MyLastLove app from your app store. Both options work almost exactly the same. 

Once you've downloaded the app to your phone, log in with the EXACT SAME email and password you use to log into the website. 

The app will look and function almost identical to what it looks/functions like when you go to the website on your phone, with a couple of small (but great!) differences:

1) You will be able to click on the star on a given page (a favorite audio, for instance), which will add that page to your favorites list, which you can then access from the favorites menu at the bottom of the page. 

2) You may find the app more user friendly and reliable than the website if you are not connected to wifi. 

 

  1. Treat this program as you would if you were taking a college course, with deadlines. Take a module a week. Give extra time when you can.
  2. Don't expect it all to feel good. A successful mindset is one where you get comfortable with discomfort. The obstacle IS the way.
  3. Instead of thinking you have to feel a certain way to take action, decide that taking action IS what's going to change how you feel.
  4. Remember that trust in necessary for growth and success. Self-trust, and trust in the process.
  5. Focus ONLY on the step you are on. Don’t worry about what comes next. THAT is how we get overwhelmed. Just. This. Step. 
  6. Listen to the Energy Clearing Meditation (in the Quickies section of the audio library), and use the symptom tree (module 1, lesson 1) OR reach out to me to get some more audio recommendations based on your specific current circumstances/feelings.
  7. Listen to The Inertia Cure (in the hypnosis section of your audio library).
  8. Look for the things you can be grateful for, in everything. "Breathing Gratitude" is a great mojo moment to use.
  9. Not to be all Nike and cliche about this, but just do it. Fake it til you make it. Be it until you see it. Remember that any time a negative or disempowering thought comes into your awareness, you always have the power to choose the NEXT thought. And please, accept that transformation takes time, practice, and repetition. But don't continue to re-affirm the negative ones over and over again. We speak things into being all the time. Language is soooooo soooo powerful.
  10. Think of the time you spend working in this program as the time you will soon be devoting to your new/last love. Would you give him a few hours per week…whether that be physically together, talking on the phone and or texting? Of course you would. So give that much time to YOU, now, by doing the work in this program. You invested in this already — time, energy, emotion, effort, and money. Don't let that investment go to waste.
  11. Return to this list any time you start feeling resistance again. Everyone goes through tough times at some point while going through this program. We lose friends, parents, pets, jobs, etc. Please note that I'm not trying to minimize anyone’s pain -- you feel it, therefore, it is valid. However, what happens in our lives, and what we feel about those things, and how we respond to those things and those feelings, are three separate things. It's in the latter two where resistance can be either succumbed to, or overcome.
  12. Remind yourself that, to a certain degree, being "overwhelmed" is necessary... We are trying to overwrite patterns that we have established over 4, 50, or even 60+ years. We are not just going to say a few affirmations on day 1 and be "fixed." We are over-writing literally decades of limiting beliefs, fears, and negative imprints on our brains. We need to immerse ourselves in the new things if we want to create those new brain connections.
  13. If you feel like the problem is “not enough time,” please go see the other FAQ above, entitled, “How can I fit this into my busy schedule?”
  14. If all else fails, remember that you have already invested a good bit of time, money, and energy into this, that you REALLY want this or you wouldn’t have done that... and that you don't want that to have all been for nothing. 

Take action. Put up at least one dating profile and follow the guidelines for your proactive search for your last love. Get out there in the world and meet people. Continue using the audios and other daily practices as a much-needed form of mental emotional/energetic “hygiene.” 

Program Site Navigation (Where To Find Stuff)

 

Once you have logged into the program website, you will see a link titled My Stuff at the top of the webpage. Click that link to see all of your programs and content. You were most likely granted access to several chunks of content (such as the actual program, coaching call replays, bonus materials, etc.) Each bit of content is in its own block or box, and there should be a link or button in each block titled ACCESS PROGRAM which you can click to access the content. The main program materials are usually the first block listed or shown if you are looking top-to-bottom and left-to-right. The main program is called "Your Last Love Method."

On a computer/PC/Mac:
Any available downloads will be on the right-hand side of the screen just below the video listings window and to the right of the lesson text.  Keep in mind that if you re-size the screen, items will be rearranged to fit your screen or window.  If this happens, the listing of available downloads will be pushed to the very bottom of the screen.  You will have to scroll down to the bottom of the page to view the downloads.

On a mobile device:
Mobile device screens are generally smaller in size than a standard computer screen.  Therefore, items will be rearranged just as noted above if resizing a computer screen.  Any available downloads will be pushed to the bottom, and you will have to scroll down to the bottom of the page to view the downloads.

General Program FAQ

 

You have one full year of access to this program, which includes:

  • all lessons/modules
  • all audios in the audio library
  • any bonuses (in the course portal) that were originally included with your enrollment

Once your year is up, you may continue your access for a small monthly fee. Inquire about this option by sending an email to [email protected]

 

You may also wish to upgrade into our full program or even our VIP program, with live coaching. Again, you can send an email to [email protected] to learn more about these options. 

Our app is called MyLastLove (just like that, with no spaces between the words). 

If you are an iphone user, search for it in the app store. 

If you are an Android user, search for it in the Google play store. 

Once you've downloaded the app to your phone, log in with the EXACT SAME email and password you use to log into the website. 

The app will look and function almost identical to what it looks/functions like when you go to the website on your phone, with a couple of small (but great!) differences:

1) You will be able to click on the star on a given page (a favorite audio, for instance), which will add that page to your favorites list, which you can then access from the favorites menu at the bottom of the page. 

2) You may find the app more user friendly and reliable than the website if you are not connected to wifi. 

The QuickStart program is a "DIY" program, and thus, does NOT include email coaching. 

If you have a technical question, and need help with the website, access, log in, etc., please send an email to [email protected] 

If you would like the ability to get your questions answered live on coaching calls, and/or to reach out via email for email coaching, you would need to upgrade into the full coaching  program -- Your Last Love Method. The upgrade includes both live coaching and a LOT more content that goes deeper into breaking your painful love patterns to find healthy love. There is a significant price increase for this upgrade due to the live coaching component. There is also a lower cost upgrade where you get all the extra content, but no live coaching, but do have the ability to get your questions answered in a private Facebook group. Please send an email to [email protected] to inquire about next steps to upgrade.

Audio FAQs

 

I have good news for you — falling asleep during the audios can actually be a good thing! Your subconscious mind is ALWAYS listening, even when you’re sleeping. And when we sleep, our conscious mind takes a break from “arguing” with the positive suggestions you are being provided with in the audios… so the new, upgraded beliefs can go deeper into your brain. In fact, sleep is basically the deepest form of hypnosis there is!

Plus, if you are able to catch some Zzzzs AND re-train your brain at the same time, that is a win-win because you’re doing double duty and saving time in your busy schedule.

You’re in luck: This is exactly why I created The Symptom Tree! But where is the symptom tree, you ask? It is all the way at the bottom of the links list in Module 1, Lesson 1 of your main program. 

Look for your “symptoms” or current situation/problem on the tree, and pick one of the audios listed underneath that symptom/situation. 

There is a key, right above the symptom tree, that explains what section of the audio library you can find certain audios in. It goes by the initials of the sections, as follows: 

H=Hypnosis

M=Meditations

MM=Mojo Moments

MSC=Miscellaneous

Q=Quickies and mini-meditations

If you don’t see what you’re looking for under the section it’s listed under, look for the “See More” link, and/or the “next” arrows. 

 

PS As a reminder, The Symptom Tree is located at the bottom of the page in the links list in Module 1, Lesson 1.

The best time of day to listen to the audios IS.... whatever time you will actually listen to them! 

In terms of "finding time" to listen, I recommend you think of it in terms of MAKING time for something that you have DECIDED is a priority for you.

But here's the even better news: Some of these audios less than 2 minutes, and most of your audios don’t have to add any extra time to your day. For example:

  • You could listen to one of your “quickie” audios while brushing your teeth and getting dressed in the morning (no extra time!)
  • You could listen to your 90-second mojo moments during bathroom breaks (no extra time!)
  • And you could put your hypnosis (or longer meditation) on while you drift off to sleep at night. (no extra time!)

By connecting the audio sessions to things you’re already doing, you make this mental/emotional/energetic “hygiene” a normal part of your life, instead of stressing over “fitting it all in.”

Being hypnotized is NOT what you see in old black and white movies, or in Las Vegas stage shows. In fact, a lot of people THINK they “can’t be hypnotized,” because they have misunderstand what hypnosis really is, and because they have in their minds that hypnosis is “supposed” to FEEL a certain way… or because they have bought into prejudices against hypnosis (based on a misunderstanding of what it really is)… But hypnosis is actually a normal, natural mental process and state of the mind, and it feels different to different people. In fact, you are probably already going into a state of hypnosis several times a day without even realizing it. Have you ever driven to work, or back home again, and arrived with no real recollection of the drive itself? That's hypnosis! So contrary to popular belief, everybody can be hypnotized.

Even though hypnotists often use the word “trance,” all hypnosis is, is a deeply relaxed state of mind and body. Hypnosis is very effective for our clients. It is part of how this program helps women break their subconscious self sabotaging patterns. In fact, it is one of the things our most successful students credit most for the way their lives transform in our program. 

That said–and here’s what’s really important–our program is made up of lessons, exercises, coaching, and audio recordings. The audio recordings make up only about 20% of this program… And only about 20% of those audio recordings are hypnosis sessions… And here’s the best part – Even if you only listen to those hypnosis audios thinking of them only as “guided deep meditations,” which is all hypnosis really is… they will still work to change your brain. What I’m saying is, even if you don’t feel “hypnotized,” that’s okay. They will still reprogram your mind, just like the other audios, which are in fact, mostly guided meditations. 

And if you’re thinking, “I can’t meditate, either”... that’s 100% fine. This is not traditional “make your mind blank” meditation… If your mind wanders to a million things, if you fall asleep, if you lose focus on the words entirely, that doesn’t matter. It is your conscious mind that is doing the wandering, while your subconscious absorbs what is being said… which is really just another form of hypnosis.

Your subconscious mind recognizes and picks up on things your conscious mind cannot. Not every word of the audio sessions is even meant to be consciously heard and understood. In fact, a few of the sessions has no conscious-level vocals at all, but the vocals are embedded "underneath" the music and sounds to create an opportunity for subliminal influence. (Don't worry, there's nothing being said below the conscious threshold that isn't already said in some of our conscious listening audios.)

While it is rare that someone has a negative reaction to one of our audio sessions, it is not completely unheard of.

My best advice is to:

1) Completely let go of any expectation of what meditation or hypnosis is "supposed to" feel like. Like everything else, it can feel completely different from one person to another... and that's perfectly ok, and it can can still be effective, regardless. For some people, it feels like completely falling asleep. Some people just feel mildly relaxed. Some people consciously notice no difference at all... And occasionally, in some situations, rare people might experience a feeling of agitation and anxiety. Whatever your personal response is, is completely normal. It's when you start JUDGING your response and resisting the process, that you are more likely to experience issues. Let go of any expectation, and just listen as a casual, objective, unattached OBSERVER. 

2) When you notice your mind wandering, do just that — NOTICE it only — no judgment, no trying to analyze WHY your mind is wandering, not beating yourself up, not interpretation of what it means that it wandered... just passive observation, followed by redirecting your mind to listen to the recording (if it's a meditation) or even just letting it continue to wander (if it's hypnosis and if that's more comfortable for you). Yes, you may need to do this a lot, or a few times, and that's ok, too.

3) If you experience discomfort in any part of your body while listening, breathe all the way into that spot, sending love and light and warmth there, and ask it to relax and release.

4) Decide and affirm before listening to any audio, that you are committing yourself to TRUSTING that this is all for your highest good, and to allow your whole being to relax and let go.

5) If you tend to have a really hard time trusting, try listening to an audio wide awake and sitting up straight (maybe even while doing something active with your body, like walking somewhere safe) while listening, for the first time…. so that your brain can hear that there’s nothing harmful and objectionable and allow you to relax and let go the next time.

6) Do the specific audio two more times, fairly close together, with an open mind. Things should get better with repetition, especially if you follow the other bits of advice above.

7) If you have tried all of the above, and still find yourself having trouble with a particular audio, it may be time to do some conscious and intentional work around the topic at hand... Additionally, you can replace that audio with a similar audio that doesn't have the adverse effect. (Send an email to [email protected] to ask what might be a good substitution for you.)

Please follow the audio calendar as closely as possible, no matter what pace you are going through the modules. It is best to treat the audio calendar and modules as separate, because it is important that you get the prescribed amount of repetition of the audios, as that is how the subconscious develops new, more empowering beliefs -- through repetition. 

 

Dating & Relationship FAQs

 

To learn the answer to this question, click this link to view the video: 

https://www.mylast.love/HowToGetOverEx

To learn the answer to this question, click this link to view the video: 

https://www.mylast.love/StayHVAroundNegativity

To learn the answer to this question, click this link to view the video: 

https://www.mylast.love/FriendsWithEx

To learn the answer to this question, click this link to view the video: 

https://www.mylast.love/HowToGetClosure

To learn the answer to this question, click this link to view the video: 

https://www.mylast.love/HesNeverMarried

While there is no "one size fits all" answer to this question, we do have a comprehensive list of dating sites we recommend, dating sites we DO NOT recommend, and the reasons why one or another might work best for your specific situation, in the "Super Attractor's Modern Dating Toolkit, which is Module 3 of this program, in lesson 2 of that module.

You are not necessarily doing anything wrong. You are more likely thinking about it wrong. This is a matter or having a counterproductive dater's mindset. The good news is, this can be easily changed if you really want to change your results, by adopting and embracing all the pieces of the successful dater's mindset.

To learn all about what makes up the successful dater's mindset, please click below to watch this video (start at the 2 minute mark, and go to the 19:10 mark): 

https://www.mylast.love/products/coaching-call-replays-your-last-love-method/categories/2153481225/posts/2170142777

Here is a list of places to meet men:

- Meetup Groups (meetup.com)
- Workshops or Seminars
- Singles Cruises / Singles Conferences/Mixers (google “singles event near me”)
- speed dating/pairing events (Match.com sponsors a lot of these)
- Car Wash
- Gym
- Dog Park
- Volunteer/Charity/Community Event
- Driving Range/Golf Course
- Home Depot/Hardware Store (ask for help or advice)
- Craft Brewery or Winery
- Gourmet Section of Grocery Store
- Airport (when traveling)
- Coffee Shop
- Liquor Store (think spirits and wines or craft beers as opposed to Bud Lite)
- Cigar Bar
- Line Dancing / Country Night at a bar

To learn more about the answer to this question, please click here to watch this short video:
https://www.mylast.love/ways-to-meet-men-organically

To learn more about the answer to this question, please click here to watch this short video: https://www.mylast.love.com/online-dating-advantage

First, let me just say that we highly recommend messaging a man first if you find his profile intriguing. Let go of any "stigma" you think is associated with making the first move. The kind of man you want, is secure enough in his manhood to be okay with (and likely, delighted by) hearing from you, first. 

And, we don't leave you wondering what to say, either. In Module 10, lesson 1, look for the "Messaging Formula," which will give you a great and easy formula to follow to get the attention of a great guy and make it easy for him to write you back.

Does using this formula guarantee a man will reply to your message? Of course not... But it does increase your chances of the right guy responding, and doing so with great interest instead of lukewarm curiosity. 

Just remember, as always, there are 8 billion people in the world, and most of them aren't your person, and that's OKAY. If a man doesn't message you back, it says nothing about your worthiness or how loveable or attractive you are. It just tells you that either he is too busy to reply, his profile isn't real anyway, or you are not a right match for him, for any one of a million reasons. (Maybe you have a cat and he is highly allergic!) Regardless of the reason, all you need to know is that if you aren't a right match for him, then he isn't a right match for you, either. Don't waste an ounce of energy worrying over it. Save your energy for the guy who is the right match. 

If I already reviewed and approved your profile and photos, the profile is not the problem. 

Here’s what the problem COULD be (no assumptions made here, just sharing what the problem USUALLY is, when someone reaches out to me with this issue):

  1. You need to try a different dating site. Some sites/apps work better in some areas than others. Please revisit Module 10 for a list of recommended sites, and those we do NOT recommend.
  2. You are not being proactive, and reaching out to men (instead, only waiting for them to come to you)… and/or you are not using the messaging formula in Module 10 if you do reach out.
  3. You are not using the qualifying questions AND the guidelines in the intentional texting guide when messaging with men.
  4. You are approaching messaging in too much of a “business-like” manner, not being flirtatious and playful and light-hearted
  5. You are not giving men a chance just because their photos aren’t great (men are terrible at taking pictures), and/or your expectations and standards for superficial things like looks, financial success, educational stats are too tight, leaving you closed off to amazing possibilities based on deeper qualities of character and personality, and/or you are not “staying in your lane,” so to speak. When someone is trying to date much younger men, much wealthier men, etc., it doesn’t tend to go well.
  6. You have some very unusual or stringent requirements for a mate. (Example: must be unvaccinated, must NEVER drink alcohol, etc.) While it’s not impossible to find a man who meets these kinds of requirements, it does shrink the dating pool by quite a lot, which makes things take longer.
  7. You are focusing on quantity over quality. Having lots of dates is not the goal. To find the needle, you must burn the haystack. Most people are hay as far as your needs and desires are concerned. This is normal and expected In a world of 8 billion people, you only need to find one. Embrace the PROCESS, not just the end goal, and you will get to the goal faster and easier.
  8. You are bringing negative energy to the process, due to a negative attitude/belief/perspective toward dating. The new FAQ page has a helpful answer that deals with this, about a successful dater’s mindset. To learn all about what makes up the successful dater's mindset, please click below to watch this video (start at the 2 minute mark, and go to the 19:10 mark): https://www.mylast.love/products/coaching-call-replays-your-last-love-method/categories/2153481225/posts/2170142777  

Maybe most of these don't apply to you, but it's highly likely that at least one of them does. These are the most common reasons women fail on dating apps. And for most people who struggle, it is usually 2-3 or more of these issues at play, simultaneously.

Finally, I have a few additional pieces of advice for you here:

1. Listen to the expansion meditation. 

2. Listen to 8 minute magnetism. 

3. Read and re-read Module 10, paying close attention. There's a lot there that many people miss the first time around. 

4. Don't be afraid to add in some organic ways of meeting men. (Search the word "organically" on this FAQ page for ideas.)

To answer this question, let me ask you a few questions:

  • Are you looking for a man with a short attention span?
  • Are you looking for the kind of man who doesn't like a woman who has a lot to say?
  • Are you looking for the kind of man who's on the dating site to look at pictures and play the app like a video game, doesn't like to read, and doesn't want to know that much about you?
  • Are you looking for the kind of man who is so rude that he takes time out of his day to message a stranger on a dating site just to tell her he DIDN'T like her profile?
  • Are you looking to appeal to as many men as possible, or are you looking to appeal to THE man who is right for you, and resonates with everything you share, hanging on your every word because they tell him all the ways you are his dream woman?

 

When I was on the dating apps, I got tons of critical messages about my profile. Some examples:

  • "This is too long. No man wants to read all of that."
  • "You're too demanding. Good luck finding that man who doesn't exist."
  • "Who do you think you are? Nobody wants to weed through all of that. No wonder you're single."

 

But do you want to know what MY man said, when he messaged me?

Greg said, "I spent hours poring over every word in your profile. It 's such a breath of fresh air to meet a woman who knows who she is and what she wants, and I can't believe how much we have in common. This just got interesting. ;)" 

 

If I had dumbed down, shortened, or watered down my profile to appeal to the kinds of guys who criticized it, I probably would have missed out on the perfect man for me. 

"More hits" is NOT what we want. In fact, the kind of guy who takes time out of his day to say something to you like that, is EXACTLY the kind of guy you want to repel. Repelling the wrong guys is just as much a part of this equation as attracting the right ones (if not more so).

Getting lots of views, likes, and messages may feel good to our egos... but it doesn't equate to finding love with the right partner, any more than getting lots of likes on a social media promotion (for a business) translates into getting paying clients.

In other words, quality over quantity. You have to burn the haystack to find the needle. Having a longer, more detailed profile is step one to burning the haystack.

We get this question quite a lot, and we have addressed it in some of our coaching calls.  In fact, we get it so much that we made a video clip of the answer.  You can find that video clip here:

https://www.mylast.love/who-pays-for-dates

Miscellaneous FAQs

 

We cannot answer this question. Some people find their last love very quickly, within weeks of completing the program modules. Others take a lot longer, and need more real-life practice using the tools. Comparing yourself to those who've manifested faster is NOT productive. Instead, choose to see others' successes as inspirations and illustrations of what is possible and on its way to you. 

Maybe your person isn't ready yet, maybe you aren't quite ready yet. Maybe the universe has one or both of you in a "holding pattern" until the right time. 

Just remember, the time it takes is going to pass, no matter what. It is your choice to either spend that time happy and fulfilled and positively focused on what you are manifesting and what you are learning along the way... or negatively focused on what you don't have, yet. (Guess which option will help you manifest faster?) ;) 

We do have two other, more comprehensive programs, one of which includes live coaching. To learn more about upgrading into a higher level program, send an email to: [email protected]

 

 We do not offer a guarantee, for many reasons:

  • If we offered a guarantee, that actually de-incentivizes people from doing the work for real. 
  • We put in the work and provide the coaching and tools on our end, but we have no way of knowing what you're actually doing on your end. 
  • Everyone has free will, their own issues to work through, their own circumstances, and their own time table is different for finding love. Anyone who tells you they can guarantee you will find love in a specific time frame, is full of it. 

What I CAN guarantee you right now, is this: 

  1. First, we​ ​can​ ​guarantee​ ​that​ ​we​ ​will​ ​give​ ​you​ ​everything​ ​you​ ​need​ ​to​ ​be​ ​successful,​ ​but​ ​what​ we​ ​can’t guarantee​ ​is​ ​that​ ​you​ ​will​ ​do​ ​the​ ​work.​ ​Are​ ​you​ ​the​ ​kind​ ​of​ ​person​ ​that​ ​asks​ ​for​ ​help​ ​when you​ ​get​ ​stuck​ ​or​ ​do​ ​you​ ​go​ ​and​ ​hide​ ​and​ ​not​ ​show​ ​up?​ ​Ok,​ ​then​ ​that’s​ ​why​ ​we​ ​are​ ​here​ ​to guide​ ​you​ ​so​ ​you​ ​get​ ​what​ ​you​ ​need​ ​when​ ​you​ ​need​ ​it.​ ​Make​ ​sense? 
  2. The second guarantee is that, you are NOT guaranteed any number of tomorrows, but you will also never be as young as you are today, therefore, NOW is definitely the only time that makes sense to do this…
  3. And the final guarantee… is that, if you don’t change something BIG about your approach to love, you will stay exactly where you are now, doing all the things you've been doing, and getting the same results you've been getting, which I know is not what you want.

The cold, hard reality is that only about 10% of people who enroll in any sort of online learning program, ever complete the program. We are proud to have a much higher finish rate than most programs, but even so, it’s only about 50%. So how do you get results? Here’s how, in order of importance:

  1. Be in the 60% who actually finish the program
  2. Make yourself and your goals a priority. 
  3. Actually follow the advice in the program, even (especially) if it feels uncomfortable. If your comfort zone could get you where you want to go, you’d already be there. 
  4. Focus only on the step you’re on. Trying to see the entire path ahead will only result in more resistance and overwhelm. 
  5. Don't beat up on yourself for not doing it perfectly. Let go of perfectionism.
  6. Be patient (impatience is scarcity mindset!), keep the faith, and use the tools in this program to stay focused on what you are manifesting, and on how far you've come, NOT on what you don't have, yet.
  7. Above all else, KEEP GOING. The people who succeed are those who choose a learner's perspective and don't let disappointments stop them from moving forward with a great attitude and an empowered perspective. 

The only way this "doesn't work for you" is if you don't put in the work, don't use the tools, don't follow the advice we give you... and if you QUIT. There's no way to fail unless you stop. 

As you agreed to on the checkout page at the time of completing your purchase, and as is stated in the terms and conditions of this website, due to the "non-returnable" nature of the coaching process and of digital content, and due to the differing levels of effort and commitment on the part of different users, there are no guarantees and no refunds.

As much work as I have put into this program to make it as comprehensive as possible, there are limits to what I could fit into one program. We should all be continuing to learn, grow, and evolve, throughout our brief time on this planet. The books you will find at the link below can be looked at as your continuing education. They may reinforce what you've learned here, help you see it in a new way that "clicks" with you, and/or teach you some brand new concepts. 

https://www.amazon.com/shop/natalie.kita.lovecoach/list/RZV1N28V8K8Q?ref_=aipsflist_aipsfnatalie.kita.lovecoach

 

Disclosure: As an amazon influencer, I do earn a small commission on sales of these books when purchased through this link, but there are no books on this list that I haven’t read myself (some more than once because they are soooo good!), and I believe each one of them is immensely insightful and helpful.

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